Table 2 Experiences of harassment toward partner by sex (n = 274)

I have called my boy/girlfriend "ugly" or "a fool".

I have asked my boy/girlfriend "What is more important between me and another/others."

If my boy/girlfriend does not see me, I have said "You don't give me priority."

I have checked where my boy/girlfriend is and who he/she sees.

I have become angry because I wanted to know with whom my boy/girlfriend was talking.

I have meddled with my boy/girlfriend's relationships with friends.

I have checked my boy/girlfriend's cell phone records without permission from my boy/girlfriend.

I have demanded my boy/girlfriend delete someone's contact information from his/her cell phone.

I have deleted someone's contact information from his/her cell phone.

I have become irritated if my boy/girlfriend disobeys me.

I have directed to my boy/girlfriend about the place where he/she is going and activities.

I have blamed my boy/girlfriend if I get angry, because he/she is at fault.

I have kissed or touched my boy/girlfriend against their wishes.

I have had sexual relations with my boy/girlfriend against their wishes.

I have taken money or credit cards from my boy/girlfriend's wallet/purse.

I have tried to injure myself in front of my boy/girlfriend when unhappy.

I have injured myself in front of my boy/girlfriend when unhappy.

I have broken or taken away items precious to my boy/girlfriend.

I have ignored my boy/girlfriend.

I have beaten or kicked my boy/girlfriend.

I have hit something or shouted in front of my boy/girlfriend when angry.

I have pressed my boy/girlfriend for money.

I have not returned money borrowed from my boy/girlfriend.

I have demanded my boy/girlfriend not go to a meeting/party if I am not participating in it.

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