Theme | Sub-themes | Example quote |
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1 Internal shift in mindset | 1a. Body appreciation | “I really appreciate my breasts as they have feed & comforted my youngest daughter for two and a half years & still going strong, which I am so proud of” |
1b. Focus on body function | “I like my legs - they get me around everywhere, I love walking and running at the beach, they are getting stronger with running” | |
1c. Gratitude | “I am grateful for my eyes, I don’t need glasses(yet) and they let me see the beautiful lives I created. No matter how tired I am they still open in the middle of the night when I’m needed. I love watching my babies grow” | |
1d. Positive re-framing | “It’s ok to feel overwhelmed as a parent (it’s relentless) and being a good mum is not synonymous with being perfect” | |
1e. Shift in mindset | “I feel a shift in my mindset is happening - that I am beginning to appreciate my body more” | |
2 External shifts in perspective | 2a. Reclaiming body | “Talking about what my body can do and appreciating it felt like reclaiming my space, reclaiming my body and honouring it in a way. It helped me drop the resentment and feel like this is my body, it’s my choice and I choose to be here” |
2b. Role-modelling | “Learning to love my body and what it can do is the best way I can help my children love themselves” | |
2c. Focus on the bigger picture | “The creases around your eyes reflect the laughter and smiles you’ve had over the last 3 decades” | |
3 Change in how I treat myself | 3a. Pride in self | “Instead of seeing what I dislike, I see what my body has achieved and makes me feel proud. It shows me that my body is more than just the negative parts that I see of it” |
3b. Self-care | “I’m finally starting to learn that in order for my girls to have the happy and healthy mum they deserve, I need to take care & look after myself too” | |
3c. Self-compassion | “You’ve done your best. You are loved. You are making a difference. This is your journey and no one expects perfection” | |
4 Increased self-awareness | 4a. Internal bodily awareness | “At the end of the day when I could choose to do this task or go to bed early, I listened to my body” |
4b. Mindfulness | “If I feel bad about part of my body I acknowledge this feeling without judgement and move on” | |
4c. Self-awareness | “I realised I hadn’t given much thought to my body other than how it looks, or when it doesn’t work properly. What about all the amazing things it does do?” | |
4d. Self-reflection | “It’s so funny to actually put thoughts onto paper - it’s makes you think and question what you’re actually saying” |